“Choosing to be a victim in a situation, simply means you’re forfeiting your rights to CONTROL your own life. Your life, your decision!”
So you might find yourself in a bit of a situation… and you feel like you are a victim? You feel like you have no control and the outcome ALWAYS makes you feel sad, lonely or so bad you feel you are a victim?
I want you to realise you have choices in controlling the situation. Everyone has control in a situation.
You might not be able to control the outcome or the behaviour of others around you, but you certainly have choices. It’s not to say that the choices you have aren’t extremely complicated or difficult ones … But by over analysing a situation, or by being too emotionally invested or by allowing someone else or a situation make you feel so negative you feel and behave like the victim in a situation, IS admitting that you are giving up your rights to control your life.
There are so many options in difficult situations, but choosing to be a VICTIM shouldn’t be one of them.
